Thanks, Felix, for moving my question. It wasn't getting much response in the other location.
The Arduino.cc site is, of course, a good source for Arduino-specific information, as are the many excellent C++ reference and tutorial sites.
I certainly don't mean to single out the RFM69 library, since many libraries I've worked with don't seem to have the kind of documentation I'm thinking of. The RFM69.cpp and RFM69.h files and examples contain thousands of lines of code. Sorting through that to understand how a specific function works can be a bit daunting for someone with limited experience. But perhaps these products are appropriate for such people.