Ok I realize I might have made a mistake and shipped some bellmotes with a PCB error that I forgot to correct.
Namely there was a trace missing and I made a mental note to fix these manually on all the PCBs in the first batch and I probably forgot on some of them before I packaged the parts. Which explains why they won't work. Namely a hookup wire needs to be soldered to these 2 points:
So .. my apologies, I would hope you can add that yourself.
I think your soldering is OK, assuming the orientation of the diodes is correct, as indicated on the silkscreen. The consequence of reversing the LEDs is that green will not be bright and red will be very bright. It's the resistors that determine that... but otherwise it won't matter since you're not looking at these, they are merely for debugging and making sure everything works.
Also please note that you will need the Moteino in the socket for the detection circuit to work. It needs a voltage from the Moteino "3.3" pin, otherwise the little IC will not be properly biased.
If that still won't work then let's take some steps back. I'd like you to wire it this way as a first step:
This will allow detection and ringing the door bell. We will do disabling as a second step after this works.