I guess I did not quite clear the question.
You are absolutely right, Felix, that the transfer process is longer the reception process.
I have a transmission time (3 repetitions, 50ms between repetitions) of a packet of 12 bytes with the default settings of the radio module RFM69HW, it takes 308ms, but receiving, saving a packet and sending a ACK takes 4-6ms. But in my network, only the gateway can initiate the transfer, the nodes transmit their information to the gateway only after the end of receiving the packet from the gateway. Therefore, there is no violation of the requirement of CSMA that there should not be more than one transmission device at a time in the network.
I meant that when a gateway sends a packet to a node, the node can be occupied by its internal tasks: interrogating and processing the sensor readings, turning on / off the elements of the managed object, etc. And yes, you are right that the node will accept the packet from the interrupt, but it will not be able to send a ACK to the gateway about the successful reception of the packet, because ACKRequested () and sendACK () do not work in the interrupt handler.