Ok so I bought some good solder and a new soldering iron, and it still doesn't work. My solder joints might not be perfect but they're not that bad either. The red Led flashes when I put power to it and the BootOk led is dimly lit, the switch Led wont go on (and I tested it off the ATXRaspi and it works fine) but apparently it works enough to turn the pi on. Like I said in an earlier post, the board worked, but that was before I put a soldering iron to it. I mean really??? If this ATXRaspi is that sensitive why not have the headers already attached because this is crap!! I'll admit that I'm not a professional when it comes to soldering, but I'm no novice either.
So if this is all "my fault", I have no clue as to what I did wrong, however, what I do know is that I have 2 boards now that turned out to be a total waste of time and money, and needless to say, I'm very disappointed.